First thing this morning, I sent these references (and more) to Hb to gauge his interest level on the usage of grey for our interiors. Surprisingly he was OK with it! Coupled with the fact that it represents the Metal element that we both need, he was SOLD! Teehee...

But then now, we have to look at the various shades of grey to ensure that the house does not look too sanitized and industrial... Come to think of it, wonder if there are really 50 Shades of Grey aside from the book... hahahaha...

 

Will pour over the various materials and shades available over the next few days. Fingers crossed that the outcome will be something that both Hb and I like!!!

Yesterday we had to begin deciding on the materials and colours of:

• Wall paints
• Wet kitchen tiles
• Kitchen cabinets
• Counter tops
• TV feature wall
• Grills

When we first started thinking about colour schemes, we looked at numerous photos on the Internet. And somehow we were both okay with earthly tones... the safe neutral colour-combo of white, brown and black. However, there was also this naggy little voice within me that occasionally says "What about grey? Grey is also easy to match and is pleasing to the eyes... Plus, it is of Metal element, something that both Hb and I need!"

The thing is, I signed up for L.i.l.l.i.a.n T.o.o's O.n.l.i.n.e P.a.h.t C.h.e.e C.o.u.r.s.e and have officially graduated (have even gotten my certificate). And during the course, I realized that both Hb and I lack the Metal element and that as much as possible we should try to have the element present in our lives. So now that we are renovating our place from scratch, it is the perfect occasion to inject the Metal element...

But because we both have not had the experience of 'playing' with grey, we kept pushing the idea... Until yesterday, when my brother (an architect) suggested it. So that got us thinking... We are renovating 2 units; our unit and my brother/parents' unit (both on the same row, only 6 units apart). The drawings and designs are done by my brother. And while there are slight customizations here and there, both units are similar in terms of major reno works. Probable differences are on furniture, colour-schemes and material. My parents like earthly tones and so when we too like earthly tones, our selections were pretty similar. So similar that we had to spend a lot time trying to make them different. A different shade, a different texture, a different placement etc.

So when he casually brought up the "grey" idea, that got us thinking harder this time... as in "Why not?". So yesterday night, I went around the net to look for numerous references on usage of grey in interiors so that Hb and I can see clearly if it's something that we can accept...  

To be continued...

One of the toughest things about renovation is colour-scheme selection. Initially, both Hb and I thought we like earthly tones... i.e. brown, black and white which is also the colour scheme for our KS weekend home now. So when we went to shop for downlights, we immediately picked the only dark colour available; 4-inch glossy chrome casing with frosted glass.

The rationale was simple (or so we thought at that point in time):

• White may turn yellowish over time
• Chrome will make an interesting contrast to the white plaster ceiling
• Wires are visible if glass panel is non frosted
• 4-inch is just nice, any larger, very "cho lor"
• Warm light cos white light is harsh
• Energy saving bulb for obvious reasons
• Fans; we're likely getting chrome ones vs. the white ones...

And so we proceed to buy 56 units! Why 56?

• 4 x Living Room
• 6 x Dry Kitchen
• 8 x Wet Kitchen
• 2 x Toilet 3
• 4 x Room 4
• 6 x Master Bedroom
• 4 x Walk In Wardrobe
• 4 x Family Hall
• 4 x Corridor Upstairs
• 4 x Room 2
• 4 x Room 3
• 6 x Porch

Note that for Living and Dining area, there will be ceiling mounted fluorescent lights concealed along the plaster ceilings. Hence the minimum number of downlights required in these areas.

The chrome coloured downlight that we selected was slightly more expensive than the plain coloured ones. But then because this guy is my bro's wife's friend's husband, the discount was better than other shops we surveyed:

• RM14.00 Casing
• RM13.00 Energy Saving Bulb
• RM27.00 Each

Grand Total = RM1,500.00 (Paid in Cash on 27-Oct-2012)


So we happily bought them all and loaded them onto our car. 6 full boxes of them! End of story? No! Cos ONE MONTH LATER... we began to doubt our selection. Why?

• The ID we consulted said any colour is fine... as long as it's not the glossy finish type cos any imperfections, dent etc will be super visible...
• Google said... stay away from chrome, it may rusts...
• Family said... the contrast is so weird... the chrome coloured downlights will be jarring...

In actual fact, one man's meat is another man's poison i.e. doesn't matter what others say, so long as we like them, different people has different taste and preference. However, the part where it may rusts and that dents are super visible... made us think twice. Afterall, we are not exactly experts in lighting. So we decided to heed the advise from the experts (the ID we consulted and my brother; an architect). We went back to the shop and asked if we could change the casing. Lucky thing, they said OK... So this time round, after much deliberations, we said OK let's go with the white one... But then even with white, there are 2 options:

• White with opening in the middle (top row, 3rd from left but in matt white)
• White border without opening (top row, 2nd from left)

After another round of discussion; with opening (where dusts tend to gather around the opening gaps) vs. without opening (we felt that it's not exactly hard to pry the casing from the plaster ceiling), we went with the 2nd option i.e. white border without opening. Oh and the part about it turning yellowish, we said, we will not smoke in the house, so it should be fine!

So OK, happily thought there will be sufficient balance for us to get other lighting from the same shop since we still need:

• 1 x Pendant Light for the Altar Area
• 1 x Pendant Light for Dining Area
• 1 x Pendant Light for Breakfast Table
• 6 x Wall Light for Toilet
• 2 x Outdoor Light for Porch Pillar

But when the recalculations were made, to our disappointment, there isn't much difference cos apparently, the one we selected earlier were on promotion, the one we are selecting now is not:

• RM12.50 Casing
• RM13.00 Energy Saving Bulb
• RM25.50 Each

Grand Total = RM1,428.00 (Exchanged on 25-Nov-2012)
Balance = RM84.00

Nevertheless, we have returned the chrome casings and will collect the new ones once they are ready (need to order it seemed). Honestly, the entire experience made us felt so 'bodoh'. Like we can't even decide on such a simple item! But then Hb said because the stakes are so high i.e. this entire renovation will cost us a bomb, we can't afford to make mistakes so it is only natural that we are unsure or maybe even afraid to make our choices. I say, we're indecisive, hehe. The only consolation is perhaps we're both in this together!

Moving forward, we will make sure we weigh the pros and cons properly before making our final decision.

OMG, so stressful!!!

So intrigued by the first chapter I downloaded on The Last Eunuch of China. Unfortunately only 1 chapter was available for download. Thought of buying the book but major local bookstores do not seemed to carry this book! Only Times Bookstore Online has but itupun it was out of stock and it cost over RM400!!!

I then proceeded to google forums and such to find out how to get this book here and that was how I stumbled upon Purple Culture website. Paid RM85.44 for the book to be shipped from Hong Kong!!! Hopefully I get it in the next 5 - 10 days!!! :))

Remembered wanting a Furby in the 90s where the toy that resembled a Gremlin was on almost every kid's wishlist. Some 14 years later, finally got 1 from Toys R Us at RM269... no not for myself though I was really tempted to, hahaha... but for my niece as an early birthday present! :))

Oh forgot to mention that I am on my final Invisalign refinement sets. 5 sets in total which meant only another 10 more weeks to go!

Honestly, Invisalign was the best decision ever! But then considering the total amount I've spent so far (on my teeth that is), one does wonder if it's worth it.

Rough calculation sums up to over 15k; 8.4k for conventional braces then 6.4k for Invisalign (heavily discounted somemore). Have not even counted the add hoc works like scaling, filling, extractions etc etc.

Anyway, am just glad that I'm finally on the last 10 weeks of refinement!!!

P.S. Dr. How said I MUST get my final 2 wisdom tooth to be extracted. That's another 800 bucks and several days of swelling. So am putting it off for now... Hate extractions!!!

Well... it's been awhile since I last posted anything here. And yup it was because I had been extremely busy with both my personal and work life. Today's topic will be on my personal life.

Hb and I, we rarely have arguments. Friends told us that when they were planning for their weddings, they had the most disagreements and fights. But when Hb and I looked back at our wedding planning, it was one of the happiest moments of our lives. We didn't argue a single bit. Every single decision was made collectively either through consensus or compromises. It was simple, enjoyable n pleasant.

However things changed when we started renovating our house! We argued day and night and quarrel about anything and everything. From the type and brand of appliances to buy to the layout of rooms to lightings to furniture to reno details. Basically every damn thing!

It has been truly exhausting and tiring. One day we decided that we need to stop getting on each other's nerves or at the very least try to consciously steer away from arguing. The rationale was a simple and straightforward one. In future when we look back at the memories of building our dream home together, would we want to remember all the fights, arguments, irritations and annoyance with one another or would we rather have a great pleasant memory like our wedding planning before?

You don't need to be a rocket scientist to know which one we opted for. It is true that marriage needs compromise and lots of work from both parties in order to keep it healthy. Am glad we somewhat came to our senses early enough before it leaves a dent in our marriage.

These days we learn to hear each other out first and to discuss every single detail calmly without being overly emo over our personal preferences. So far, it has been working for us. Fingers crossed that we will be able to complete building our dream home peacefully! :))

The IPO that gives you insomnia... boohoo...