Final Freakshow

Last Sat, the final Freakshow Tour with Pop Shuvit and Friends was held in Malacca. Since all of us were staying for the night, we drank like there's no tomorrow (i.e. mad). So needless to say, all the photos taken were of us doing silly antics.


Also took photos with some of the DJs present but my favourite DJ wasn't around that night... Ean... hehehehe...

From [L] to [R]
Top line: JJ, Adam C, Burn (XFresh)
Middle line: Hani, Adam C & Skeletor, Jakeman
Bottom line: JJ, Skeletor, Rudy

Went to bed around 4.30am and got up 3 times to "lau sai"... starting 7.30am. At the final round, my colleague knocked on the toilet door:
Colleague: Hey, are you in there?
Me: Ya...
Colleague: What are you doing?
Me: Stomach ache la, "lau sai"... don't disturb
Colleague: OK or not?
Me: I'm OK la... I always "lau sai" one...

Sheesh... I hate to talk when I'm in the midst of a cake baking you know :P

After checking out, we went to this place for "satay babi" and "satay" pork intestines. 5 of us took a total of 92 sticks! I took 17 sticks (a mixture of both) cos it tasted damn nice when it's hot. But for the entire day after that, I felt like puking! I had to take 2 glasses of ENO when I reached home and a cup of honey vinegar. But the following day, I got up with gastric. "Stupid" betul.

Nevertheless, it was fun fun and fun!!!

Tragic Tragedy

I heard a terribly depressing story from a friend today.

Background
She dated this guy; "K" on and off. I mean, they attended some of our outings together and the last time we met was during a treasure hunt early this year... but apart from that, I don't really know how close they were.

The Depressing News
Today, I got to know that he committed suicide last Friday!

How It All Started
It all apparently happened cos the girl suggested that perhaps they should spend some time apart and before she knew it, he sent her a weird SMS stating: "I won't be bugging you anymore. Goodbye forever".

Sensing that something was wrong, the gal tried looking for him but he was no where to be found and his mobile was off! On Saturday, she got a letter delivered to her - which was apparently his final letter stating that he will be taking his own life and that she shouldn't be sad or cry for him!

The Tragedy
But that's not the worst part yet. The worse thing was, he chose to die in HER apartment on Friday by inhaling burnt charcoal!!! And she was the first person to find his lifeless body the following day!!! Can you even imagine the horror of it all???

The Depression
I really don't know what happened in between but the girl was totally wrecked!!! I mean, who wouldn't be la right. She couldn't sleep, she couldn't eat! And she insisted that she caused his death. For now, she is temporarily living with her friend cos according to her, she could sense his presence around her at home! Call it psychological or whatever but I agree with her that his soul could be wandering given that he didn't die a natural death.

Honestly, as a friend, I am so worried about her but I'm not exactly sure as to how I could comfort her. I mean, even if she gets thru this and continue living her normal life, I'm sure she'll carry the burden and the scar forever. It's no wonder, they have phrases like "scarred for life"... Sigh... Perhaps it is best to leave her to recover at her own pace. Some things can't be forced and I am definitely not in a position to ask her to forget the whole incident given all that she has gone thru! So ya... this is truly a depressing tragedy.

Food for thought:
Cherish life and those around you. It's so easy to end one's life but pity those who are left behind to endure the heartache, to moan the loss, to suffer the misery and pain of losing a loved one... forever...

Foreign Chinatown?

Read in the papers today that more and more tourists are requesting for Chinatown (Petaling Street) to be removed from their itinerary. Why?

Cos it's no longer what it was before. The last time I went there to 'makan', I was surprised to see migrant workers manning nearly all the stalls! These people speak in English and Cantonese but they were obviously not locals lor. Seemed kinda weird to me cos Chinatown everywhere is full of Chinese not Banglas... even when I visited Chinatown in London, I immediately felt a sense of belonging after spending days in an 'angmoh' country.

So yala, kinda weird for our Chinatown to be liddat.

Nevertheless, it is still worth visiting for the rats tail noodle nearby, assam laksa and hokkien mee... yum yummm...

And oh... the last time I went there, I felt like a Northern Mushroom!

Judge This: Part V

I declared W-A-R with Bitch-from-Hell bout 2 years ago. Since then, we've not spoken to each other and I've stopped visiting my bf's family (except the mandatory Chinese New Year visits). So for the past 2 years, I've only visited the parents once a year and with her, no contacts what-so-ever.

  • Out of the blue, she SMS-ed me last Sunday at 2.37am! "Hi, it's me, your sister n law. How r u?"

I was out gallivanting the whole night and by the time I saw my phone, it was already 4 plus in the morning! Thinking that she's drunk or something, I decided to just ignore it. But I forwarded the message to my bf and said: "From your sister. Mad one!"

  • But when my bf came the next day, I saw this in his Inbox (ya, I openly read his SMS-es, sue me): "I SMS her last night. How come she didn't reply?"

Hmmm... something must be going on here. For one, she's been asking my bf to ask me out a couple of times. But being the stubborn cow I am, I ignored her. SHE OWS ME A FUCKING APOLOGY! But this! I'm rather certain that this is another one of her dirty plot to put me in a bad light again! The fact that she complaint to my bf would mean that she complaint to her parents too...

  • I can almost imagine her bitching out loud to her family: "I already SMS her ma, but she also never reply. No manners!"

So to protect myself (and after consulting my family)... I replied with this, 12 hours later: "Hi, I'm doing great! How do you do?"

That SMS tho short... was a rather hard one to compose... (1) There's NO WAY I'm gonna call her sister in law. I'm not even married yet! Mad or what? (2) I had to refrain myself from saying... "I am doing gggrrrEEEAAATTTTTT without YOU in my life BITCH!!!" (3) I don't give 2 hoots bout how she's doing... but apparently, I must be courteous to ask her how she was...

Honestly, I didn't expect her to reply straightaway...

  • But shortly after that she replied with this: "So far so good. Long time never see you already. Maybe we can meet up some of these day"

Again... replying was tough especially when I am still so full of anger... but I replied: "Sure. :)"

So... am I gonna go out with her the next time she asks me out? Nahhh... she can fuck off for all I care... afterall, what she did 2 years ago was terrible to not just me alone but my family and my bf too! So if she thinks she can get away so easily... she can dream on.

It's about time she learns not to intimidate or bully other people just because she's the eldest in the family! And ohhh... doesn't mean that when we keep quiet, everything's ok. In my case, I've been patient long enough and after what happened 2 years ago, I told myself that I won't take anymore CRAP from this Bitch-from-Hell! Don't fuck around with me bitch!!!

Click on these links to view the earlier entries on what happened:

Judge This [Part 1/4]
Judge This [Part 2/4]
Judge This [Part 3/4]
Judge This [Part 4/4]

Nevertheless it felt great that she's the one making the move to reconcile first after 2 long years! Whether or not we're gonna be ok in the future is a different story altogether.

Freakshow

Last Saturday, I attended the Freakshow Tour by Pop Shuvit and Friends at Ruums, KL. It was such a fun night with cool line ups of local bands and great music from Hitz.FM DJs. The entire Ruums was filled to the max from as early as 8pm... Damn cool!

We took loads of photos too... First were the serious posing shots.


Then as the night progressed... all sorts of funny and happy shots...


Hehehe... Life is beeeeeaaaaauuuuuuutifuuuuuuuuuuuuuul!

Steps: Theme Song

Theme song of the TVB drama "Steps".


Mou Dou Chuen Sing by Bernice Liu

Do mo pui hap
Nei kung ngo yat tui
Do mo fai lok
Nei kung ngo seong jui
Yung pou jiok ngo
Jum joi ngoi hoi lui
Yiu see wo nei
Mut wai gui
Do mo mei lai
Yau jiok nei gan ngo
Do mo heng hang
Ngo yuen yi ching cho
Yan yau jiok nei
Joi mut yau yat gor
Jeh yok yuen mei
Bit chut chor
I'm so in love with you
Yi hau lin joi yat hei
But gun san fan
Ngoi jiok nei
Wun siong jeh yat fan ching tik mei
I'm so in love with you
Yi hau lin joi yat hei
Kum sum tou ji pou jiok nei
Joi sai kan tau yap ngoi ya yan nei

Steps: FireFlies

One of the reasons why I like "Steps" so much is because of all the songs played in the drama. So damnnnnn niceeeee! This snippet here shows how Tsun and Sum Ying's relationship started... very romantic one... :)



FireFlies by Noella Choi

I don't know why you hesitate
Everytime you are near me
Is it that you fear
You might fall into something deep

Standing on the edge of the night
Feelings raging inside
But if you open your eyes

Can you see the fireflies dancing in the air
Like the stars up in the sky
Feel the gentle breeze caress star light
Oh, it's time to take to flight

Take my hands I'll lead you to the places where
I am sure you've never been
So just hold me close and we will go
This is how it all begins

Falling in love

(Repeat all over again)

Men Don't Cry

After finishing "Steps", I proceeded to watch "Men Don't Cry" (Gan Yan Kin) over the weekend. It is a 21-episode TVB comedy series with the following casts:
Synopsis from Wikipedia
With the support of the head of the Police Authority, Guangzhou's top villain Ho Kei-Kin or better known as Kan Yan Kin (Dayo Wong) has been riding roughshod over everyone around him. He is so manipulative that he has explored every possible means in his fight for a house with the buck-toothed owner Ling Yuk Tsui (Cecilia Yip).

Tsui is happy to have met the upright and honorable Wong Fei Hung (Lam Kar Wah). The pair quickly falls in love and even feels ready for marriage. Interested in stirring up trouble, Kin tries to recruit more students for his kung-fu school by portraying himself as the hero who has defeated one of the Ten Tigers of Guangdong Wong Kei-Ying.

For the sake of fairness, Hung is resolved to have a contest with Kin. Unfortunately, Kin manages to make Hung give in with the help of the ancestral tablet of his late father. Thinking that he is a hopeless coward, Tsui decides to break off her engagement to Hung.

Kin quickly grabs the chance and begins to woo Tsui. Tsui agrees to transfer her house to Kin after much persuasion from him. Kin shows his true colors as soon as he has secured the property. Tsui is left homeless and has to put up at Po Chi Lam, the martial arts club set up by Hung.

Kin has lost his power and soon becomes an object of contempt and hatred. With nowhere else to go, he decides to turn to Hung and asks to be his apprentice. Hung has tried his best to bring out the human side of Kin, for which he has received a lot of criticism from others. Despite Hung’s support, Kin does not repent and behaves even worse than before, leaving Po Chi Lam in a state of total chaos…

My verdict of the drama
C-R-A-P!!! Totally crappy with stupid storyline and lousy ending! I would rate it 1 out of 5 stars!

Stupid Storyline
It was about this Evil Kin who is EVIL and yet in the end, he solved a big illegal human transporting scam that was masterminded by the Head Police himself. In between... more stupidity were showcased like how:
  • When he was EVIL - people thought he was EVIL
  • When he was KIND - people still thought he was EVIL
  • When he pretended to be EVIL again (under the pretext of getting closer to the Leopard gang as an informant) - people thought he was KIND and tried their best to change him
  • When he was KIND (as in he solved the case of the illegal scam) - people misunderstood him to be EVIL

So the moral of the story is PERCEPTION = REALITY. If you wanna be evil, stay evil. If you wanna be KIND, stay kind. There are no in between.

Lousy Ending
It was a thorough waste of time and money to watch this drama and worst still, the ending has to be hanging!
  • Evil Kin disappeared from his town and was last seen as one of the judges for a beauty pageant where he let another bucktooth contestant win (means he still likes the buck-toothed lady from him town lor)
  • Wong Fei Hung is still in love with the ex-buck-toothed lady but ex-buck-toothed lady could not forget Evil Kin
  • The group of elders on board when the ship exploded miraculously stayed alive cos apparently they held on to planks and floated to a nearby village - WTF? All of them are OK despite the explosion?
  • No mention of everyone else in the movie

If it wasn't because of my bf, I wouldn't even watch this movie cos this Evil Kin is really ANNOYING. Unlike Stephen Chow who is comedic but likeable, this Evil Kin is comedic yet hateful... There were a few occasions where I had the urge to slap him even... Hehehehe...

Steps

Spent the entire Deepavali day watching the entire series of a TVB drama called "Steps" (Mou Dou Chuen Sing). It was a fantastic dance-oriented drama featuring the following stars:

Synopsis (from Wikipedia)
Dance lover Lee Sum Ying (Bernice Liu) is going to audition for a place in the Hong Kong Dance Company. Before the audition starts, she bumps into her brother Lee Lik Keung (Wayne Lai) and his colleague Ching Ka Tsun (Steven Ma) at a supermarket, where she is accidentally run over by Tsun’s trolley and hurts herself. Due to her arm injury, Sum Ying did not perform well in the audition and failed the assessment. At the invitation of Tsun’s mother, Sum Ying goes to teach Latin dance at a local community center, in the hope that she can save up enough money for further studies abroad.

Sum Ying has a very warm personality and is well-liked by many of her students. Her popularity eventually lands her a teaching job at a dance workshop, which makes another dance tutor, Ching Ka Man (Fala Chen) who is also Tsun's sister, incredibly jealous. Ka Man dislikes Sum Ying so much that she means to make things difficult for her in every possible way.

Yeung Sze Man (Kate Tsui), the daughter of Tsun’s boss, is appointed to take charge of the company. In order to improve staff morale, Sze Man has announced a series of reforms. She needs her staff to learn dancing so that they can get more physical exercise. Sum Ying is hired as the dance teacher of Tsun and his colleagues. Tsun, who has some knowledge in dancing, has soon resumed his interest in this expressive form of art.

Sum Ying and Tsun have gradually developed a close bond with each other and even decided to take part in an international dance competition as partners, but the pair’s relationship is put to the test when Tsun and Keung later fall out over business matters. The discord between the two men has put Sum Ying in dilemma…

My own synopsis on the ending
The drama revolves around several key characters where everyone is somehow related to someone else in one way or another.

Quick legend on the relationships diagram below:

  • Blue Lines = Siblings
  • Pink Lines = Best Buds
  • Red Lines = Couples
  • Yellow Lines = Rivalry
  • White Lines = Dance Partners
  • Grey Lines = Colleagues

All's well and the ending was a good one. Lee Lik Keung (Wayne Lai) married Yau Lam Lam (Claire Yiu) and Lam Lam's brother; Yau Sheung Dat (Stephen Wong) moved in to stay with Keung and Sum Ying.

The company that Sze Man was in charged off did successfully well and everyone got a 15% increment. Sze Man also continued to head the company. Although Sze Man's relationship with Mai Dik Sung (Matthew Ko) didn't work out given that the latter has a wife and a sick daughter, she eventually accepted Dat.

Ka Man learnt the lesson of the life when she realised that Anita (her mother's enemy) was only using her to cause tension / headache to her own mom. Out of anger, she accidentally pushed Anita down a fleet of stairs where Anita broke her leg. Ka Man was sentenced to a 9-month jail term.

The dispute between Tsun and Keung also ended when the misunderstandings were cleared and when Tsun helped persuade old Mr. Yeung (Sze Man's father) to re-hire Keung back (at much better terms...).

Despite the injury on her eyes that cause her momentarily blindness, Tsun and Sum Ying managed to complete the dance they started at the international dance competition. They even emerged triumphant as the judges honored their exceptional sportsmanship with a special prize. Best of all, Tsun finally proposed to Sum Ying at the end under fake "snow" flakes which both parties secretly planned (separately).

And that... was the end of the great new TVB drama. I would give it a rating of 4 1/2 out of 5 stars for:

  • Chemistry between Tsun and Sum Ying
  • Beautiful dance steps
  • Super nice soundtracks
  • Simple and easy going plot
And lastly, if there are any key learning from the drama, I would say they are as follows:
  • Mutual Trust
    Drama: Ballroom dancing emphasizes on mutual trusts and synchronized steps to rhythm... In the drama, there was this part where Tsun was dancing with Sum Ying when the latter suddenly couldn't see (eyesight / corner issue from an accident), they could still complete the dance cos' Sum Ying trusted Tsun wholeheartedly that he'd lead her properly.

    Learning: We often find it hard to wholeheartedly trust someone. One may often wonder if there is a hidden agenda behind the facade that the other person is projecting. But really, is there a need to be suspicious all the time? Perhaps it is good to be optimistic and be genuine to all parties to avoid unnessary misunderstandings.
  • Jealousy
    Drama: Jealousy is one of the deadly sins that one should not practice. In the drama, Tsun's sister - Ka Man is soooo jealous of Sum Ying that she did stupid things that eventually landed her own ass in trouble.

    Learning: Don't compare. Everyone is special in their own ways. The more you compare, the more you cause heartache to yourself. Just be happy and thankful that you are what you are.
  • Look Beyond the Surface
    Drama: There was also this part where Ka Man went under her mother's rivalry's tutelage - Anita cos she thought Anita recognizes her ability as a dancer. In the end, she realised that Anita was only using her to get even with her own mother.

    Learning: Learn to look beyond the surface. Not everything is what they seemed to be and of course, family comes first no matter what cos when you are in trouble, friends may abandon you but your family will be there to support you thru thick and thin.

Failed Diet

The other day, I casually mentioned to my neighbour that I wanted to go on a diet cos I've gained like 1kg!!! But regretfully, I ate like a PIG the following day:

"Nasi lemak" for breakfast

My neighbour bought me "nasi lemak" from Hoca Coffee. We've been taking bout this "nasi lemak" for over a week now. The last time we wanted to buy it, it was all sold out. This "nasi lemak" is very nice cos the "sambal" is sweeeeeeet :)

Doughnuts before lunch

Then one of my colleagues went to Pavillion and bought back a dozen of yummy J.Co doughnuts! I've tastest only the Glazzy and the Almond ones so when he bought back the variety, I couldn't stop myself... There were 4 different types of doughnuts: chocolate, mango, blueberry and tiramisu. I had 1 mango and 1 tiramisu... soooooooooooooooo yummy I tell you!

"Nasi kandar" for lunch

Came lunch time, my neighbour asked if I wanna go and get fruits with her and I went like: "Dowan la... I wanna go and eat" to which she replied: "Aren't you supposed to be on a diet?". Hehehehehe... my answer was: "Nola, mad one... hungry la" and we all went out to Pelita for "nasi kandar". Somemore mine was "banjir kandar".

Nearly had Pizza for Tea

Came tea time, someone offered me pizza. And since I love pizzas oh soooo much, I nearly took a slice! But luckily my neighbour reminded me bout my diet. I managed to refrain myself...

Not only was it a failed attempt to diet, I think I also gained a few additional pounds from all the calories that day! Sigh...

Battle of the Sexes

Today, out of the blue... I received an email with the subject: "Your Car Looks Dirty. Wanna Have a Car Wash?". It was sent by one of my colleagues to the entire team... with only these words: "Slurring liao...". So out of curiosity, I decided to open the attachments only to find these gals... "washing" cars:


The guys were pretty excited about it... and one even said that he doesn't mind paying RM50 just to watch these gals washing his car. But since we have more female than male in our team... I replied with this: "Eh... think only guys can enjoy their car wash ar? Gals can too..."


My female colleagues then responded with:

  • "Well, I don't mind if he hose me down too..."
  • "He can lie on my car all day..."
  • "Oohhhh! I like and my car is very dirtyyyyy..."

Hehehehe...