Judge This: Part V

I declared W-A-R with Bitch-from-Hell bout 2 years ago. Since then, we've not spoken to each other and I've stopped visiting my bf's family (except the mandatory Chinese New Year visits). So for the past 2 years, I've only visited the parents once a year and with her, no contacts what-so-ever.

• Out of the blue, she SMS-ed me last Sunday at 2.37am! "Hi, it's me, your sister n law. How r u?"

I was out gallivanting the whole night and by the time I saw my phone, it was already 4 plus in the morning! Thinking that she's drunk or something, I decided to just ignore it. But I forwarded the message to my bf and said: "From your sister. Mad one!"

• But when my bf came the next day, I saw this in his Inbox (ya, I openly read his SMS-es, sue me): "I SMS her last night. How come she didn't reply?"

Hmmm... something must be going on here. For one, she's been asking my bf to ask me out a couple of times. But being the stubborn cow I am, I ignored her. SHE OWS ME A FUCKING APOLOGY! But this! I'm rather certain that this is another one of her dirty plot to put me in a bad light again! The fact that she complaint to my bf would mean that she complaint to her parents too...

• I can almost imagine her bitching out loud to her family: "I already SMS her ma, but she also never reply. No manners!"

So to protect myself (and after consulting my family)... I replied with this, 12 hours later: "Hi, I'm doing great! How do you do?"

That SMS tho short... was a rather hard one to compose... (1) There's NO WAY I'm gonna call her sister in law. I'm not even married yet! Mad or what? (2) I had to refrain myself from saying... "I am doing gggrrrEEEAAATTTTTT without YOU in my life BITCH!!!" (3) I don't give 2 hoots bout how she's doing... but apparently, I must be courteous to ask her how she was...

Honestly, I didn't expect her to reply straightaway...

• But shortly after that she replied with this: "So far so good. Long time never see you already. Maybe we can meet up some of these day"

Again... replying was tough especially when I am still so full of anger... but I replied: "Sure. :)"

So... am I gonna go out with her the next time she asks me out? Nahhh... she can fuck off for all I care... afterall, what she did 2 years ago was terrible to not just me alone but my family and my bf too! So if she thinks she can get away so easily... she can dream on.

It's about time she learns not to intimidate or bully other people just because she's the eldest in the family! And ohhh... doesn't mean that when we keep quiet, everything's ok. In my case, I've been patient long enough and after what happened 2 years ago, I told myself that I won't take anymore CRAP from this Bitch-from-Hell! Don't fuck around with me bitch!!!

Click on these links to view the earlier entries on what happened:

Judge This [Part 1/4]
Judge This [Part 2/4]
Judge This [Part 3/4]
Judge This [Part 4/4]

Nevertheless it felt great that she's the one making the move to reconcile first after 2 long years! Whether or not we're gonna be ok in the future is a different story altogether.